Wednesday, August 20, 2008

GIVING HEAD: is it a chore or is it pleasure?

DISCLAIMER: Am only sharing.
My gal Allison wrote this somewhere and I felt I can share this.
Dont mistake they aint my thoughts am only sharing.

I saw a rerun of HBO's Real Sex about a month ago and there was a segment where this woman was giving fellatio instructions to women who wanted to improve their head game.

The instructor had a dishwasher filled with a couple dozen of dozen synthetic male appendages, which she proceeded to bag up and take to a "Tupperware" type party. She had chicks sitting around following her instructions on how to suck a d-i-c-k. They were all sucking and stroking the fake appendage like they were really trying to win the "Superhead" award.

I was like shyt why in the world do these women need instructions on something that comes so naturally. But I could be wrong. Maybe it's the freak in me or maybe it's my big juicy lips that makes it so easy for me to please orally. I especially I love giving head when I LOVE the man I'm sucking. Also, the shape, width and length have a lot to do with whether or not I'll engage in deep-throating.

When it's a perfect fit, I love the slide and the glide inside my mouth. Mmm. I always keep it tasty and interesting, coating my favorite appendage with melted chocolate or something sweet and warm, cool, or minty it all depends on my mood.

In praise of the perfect p-e-n-i-s, I really must say, that there have been some d-i-c-k-s in my life that were so beautifully sculpted, fit so comfortably between my lips, penetrating so deeply, that the helmet-shaped head touched the back of my throat and brought tears to my eyes and nearly made me choke with joy, of course. That choking sensation makes it extra juicy inside my mouth, allowing even deeper oral penetration.

I've never met a man who didn't love getting his helmet licked and d-i-c-k sucked, but I wonder... can most women work their mouths or do some need to tighten up their head game?

Men, if your woman isn't proficient in that department, do you turn it down and just aim for the punany? Do you grin and bear it, putting up with mediocre fellatio? Or are you comfortable enough with the topic to gently point out what she's doing wrong?

I've heard that some women really and truly HATE giving head. Ladies, how do feel about going down? Do you simply want to get it over with or do you love giving as much as you love receiving?


18 comments:

3nspeaks said...

*sighs*

i guess most of the questions are directed at the ladies....I will be lurking and reading their opinions on it

Msanii_XL said...

Graphic and aptly described.

*goes back to lurker status*

31337 said...

i have met a number in my time who have given me such good head, and voluntarily too, that i was quite tempted to forgo all else, they being the ones who enjoyed it, then there are those on the other side of that fence, who did a roundly awful job of it and had to stop them mid stride since neither of us was enjoying the experience. so i guess its personal tastes and values at play here. i do not mind whichever way though, i shall not dismiss you just because you do not know which way from south since sex is supposed to be a mutually pleasurable experience.

acolyte said...

Lurking with intent.......

Kirima said...

Will come back later to check the answers!

akiey said...

Phew! the writer sure has a good head screwed on right on her (pun intended, lol!)

I've always had friends with whom we discussed any & everything bila haya so I've heard varying opinions on the matter. As a guy I'd say it all depends on what the two pple cuddling up decide to whether it will give either one of them a migraine or not, hehe!
And I'm out!

gishungwa said...

If you cant do it well then take time to learn then perfect practice makes perfect. Read up, google etc. this applies to both men and women technique is of the essence.
Great post.

Half n Half said...

@ Gish: what do you google? perfect head? wacha I try

Is there such a thing as a chick who can give a perfect head at all times? isnt it a matter of preference? lets poll all the men and combine their likes then we can have The perfect head!

Kafai. said...

Giving head should be a pleasure for both parties, when one party is embarrassed or feeling put out, the pleasure is just diminished. As for the perfect head, keep practicing and encourage feedback from your partner (but not of the 'did you cum?' genre). And finally I am yet to come across a man who does not enjoy a good lick.

xs said...

****JOining the lurkers****

Ramb Lesex said...

Good head rocks. I don't mind getting it. I also love giving it to the woman I'm with. Unless hygiene is an issue, I do not understand how anyone wouldn't want to give a woman head!

aaarrrggg said...

good one!
I'm o.k with giving but can't say i relish it. Wish that I did for mzee's sake.

I actually hate receiving!

greamhouze said...

12 comments at my time and there are ore dudes than chix! Ladies come ooooon! Am milling around too!

Anonymous said...

i dont mind giving head, but it's the cum that i've never gotten used to..in my time i've only let one dude cum in my mouth..the man i love..don't think i can stomach anyone else..

Anonymous said...

A lovely post....never backward in coming forward...a good motto, no? I am not alone in noticing ati it's mostly blokes that are responding.

Shyness ni kitu mbaya and I was at mombao not too long ago and my GF at the time said."...sasa uninyonye". Her openness and lack of shy made that the most inspired and enchanted evening that I will ever have.....

Chatterly said...

I'd give head any day as long as the dick doesn't taste like §")%&!
And yes, there are some guys who DONT like getting head...and those ones are the ones who won't go down on you, ever. But dick-in-mouth? me? ahhh with pleasure...but i hate it when a man pushes my head in that direction. smh!

pink m said...

I love giving head lakini I'm with @Chatterly on the pushing my head down. I'll do it gladly, so why do you need to push my head down?
The cum....mmmmmh that's an acquired taste but I have to really trust you.

I think 90% of all guys love getting it, but less than 50% will reciprocate. Selfish dudes!

Demonaz said...

idk what it is. I love getting head, but I LOOOOOOOVE eating pussy. I have found with a number of women that "69" is a very mutually gratifying experience. Even with some of the women who don't like giving head, sometimes they enjoy it slightly more when im eating them out. For me, its about giving and receiving. Gotta do both to have a good time.

****joining the lurkers****