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Wednesday, April 02, 2008 by Nakeel
I so agree with her they are a white-collar job within another.
As someone once told me a relationship is 80% - 20%.
Please expand: One gets a partner who is giving her/him 80% and that’s like everything you have been looking for the most important. But there is that part that is not fulfilled mostly the naughty side the outdoor side which most people don't the good head the wild sex the rubbing of feet just when relaxing yes those things that you wish your partner might one time realize you so need. After a long wait you find they will never see it so you get out in search of the 20% and you get it.
There you very happy because finally you have found what was missing.
So was left TOL: what will happen when the giver of 80% finds out there is the 20% and being the bigger part owner they leave. Automatically you are a looser and the 20% will realize they have just been a topping.
Sometimes you never realize how much you have worked in a relationship till something happens and you are like this is how I had done.
At the end of the day you know what you want fully and if you aren’t getting it make your partner work and give it to you. Relationships are sacrifices and if one is not worthy your sacrifice then don’t go further. But it will never be fair for one to work while the other is not that’s just a ticket for quits.
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Hey naks..how tha cute little one be..I miss him terribly. Si am his favorite...hehehhe
relationships are ngumu let me not get into it.
farmgal
Getting into a relationship is work, maintaining it is work and ending it is work. Little wonder many people chose to be single.
Now who is this Steve character ebu I look for that comment.
I agree completely relationships are work and you do not get the 100% initially with the person you love.
But if both of you sacrifice and always appreciate the 90% you love about each other then as time goes and your love grows you will near getting full satisfaction from each other.
p.s. pole about Steve guy -- i don't get why people waste time bothering other people on blogs
Hey dear, Pole about the steve guy...ni boredom wina yoo.
I love you baby's feet, so munchy.
relationships are a sacrifice and it's more of growth than instant gratification.
Both of you must work at it as you say.If not the load is much heavier.
Steve can take a long walk off a short plank.
eish i have said enough 'amen's today in comments. so i'll say TRUDAT!
if you search for the 20 outside you lose 100. waswahili walisema, "mtaka yote....
as for steve, leave!
if you had 80%, why would you go in search of 20%???? sii you just rub your own feet.
Well said on the post M.I.L.
Kisses to my one and only.
You can make the hard work fun, in a relationship. Hehehe, but that is another job altogether. I don't know how we'all do it!
The first time I ever heard that 80/20 relationship idea was the movie : "Why did I get married?"
Btw if you have never seen that movie, please do! Great flick!
The moment we stop looking at people in relationships as commodities we buy from the shop to fulfill our own needs and rather as human beings who we work hard to love and co-exist with, the better we'll be.
My $0.02
Steve, please just back off. You don't some bad ranting!
You can never 100% from a relationship, its always learning.
@FG He missed you too kwanza I saw him looking for bottled water you taught him..
@Aco I so agree everything is work in everything. I deleted the nonsense.
@3N Thats so true.
@Kelitu Appreciation always has to come first. Will sambaza the tu legs.
@31337 Ditto
@Modo ukosa yote.
@DIL Thats when someone looses all he had. I will.
@Majonzi Everything becomes work at the end of it all.
@Mwangi Will looks for it. I hear you.
@Shi Both parties become teachers and students at one point.
Steve - get lost.
Btw - why publish your blog, if teh Steve's of the world can't comment? Wouldn't it be easier to just keep a diary.