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Tuesday, March 25, 2008 by Nakeel
Sometimes getting a topic for your post is hard.
So how was your Easter? Mine was well enjoyed but had a hard time.
OK I spend the Sunday and Monday nursing my gal who was heart broken on Saturday night.
What happened. She was being a good gal arranging his man's room as he requested putting his clothes in the wardrobe and all that being the lady then she accidentally met a Chic's clothes which are not her's of course. She goes ahead to ask him who they belong to.
He goes they belong to his X they have been there ever since but it he will be getting rid of them.
She told me of an instance that she tumbled upon her (the X's) passport size pic in his wallet and when he asked him he got rid of it.
On Saturday evening when she asked him about the clothes and she was given the answer she just walked away tears and since then she has not communicated to him despite his calls and everything.
I know my gal very well. She has loved the guy endlessly when you see them together they are a perfect couple. I just wonder why did he do that to her. Why did he pretend to love her when he knew very well he never did.
Can the men give me their point why this happened? And ladies too.
So how was your Easter? Mine was well enjoyed but had a hard time.
OK I spend the Sunday and Monday nursing my gal who was heart broken on Saturday night.
What happened. She was being a good gal arranging his man's room as he requested putting his clothes in the wardrobe and all that being the lady then she accidentally met a Chic's clothes which are not her's of course. She goes ahead to ask him who they belong to.
He goes they belong to his X they have been there ever since but it he will be getting rid of them.
She told me of an instance that she tumbled upon her (the X's) passport size pic in his wallet and when he asked him he got rid of it.
On Saturday evening when she asked him about the clothes and she was given the answer she just walked away tears and since then she has not communicated to him despite his calls and everything.
I know my gal very well. She has loved the guy endlessly when you see them together they are a perfect couple. I just wonder why did he do that to her. Why did he pretend to love her when he knew very well he never did.
Can the men give me their point why this happened? And ladies too.
There is no need of jumping to conclusions over the presence of the x's clothes unless there are some other issues.
It is likely that he was too lazy to get rid of them -housekeeping is a chore most males detest.
My 2 cents.
It could be that those were an x's clothes. were there other signs of cheating?
farmgal
Why he did cheat? I don't think he did, the clothes could be from a long time ago, why would he let her find them angezificha mbali. Dude is innocent me thinks, though a blotch is that picture in the wallet, there iko suspicious.
If they've been going out for a long time, I think the situation can still be salvaged. Just conduct a witch hunt and clear out any x related stuff from both their wadrobes and wallets/purses. Sad that people can't move on and go into relationships with baggage from kitambo. She's got every right to react that way.
Wouldn't worry too much about the clothes, but that picture in the wallet.........?
I'm a great believer in going with my gut feeling. Only your friend knows best.
btw, love the pic of your baby's legs and feet-- so munchy..lol!
Like everyone else, I also believe the guy. But the chic must know something more, especially if they have been together for so long and then this. I would not like to think that she is jumping to conclusions... maybe she saw signs... sixth sense? She should work towards getting to the bottom of this.
Relationships are work. We'll pray for her to heal. It is never easy!
I dont think there is anything to worry about! But she should be straight with the guy, it hurts when someone just disappears!
Lakiiiini, has he not tried to get in touch since then ama I have missed something?
I had my X's photo on my mantel place for 4 years without realizing it until my last girlfriend raise it the first day she came to my place.
I still have my X's clothes in a closet somewhere. I just cant bring myself to throw them away and it does not mean am hang-over her.
Tell you pal to move on. I don't think it means anything. We do not hold value to such things as photos in the wallet the way ladies do.
I think that if the guy says the clothes have been there since way back it may well be the truth.Unless of course this girl has cleaned this room before and these clothes were never there. Otherwise it just might be that the b/f never thought anything of the clothes being there.
I think it takes ALOT of courage to walk away from someone you love- so that must have been hard for her. But if I was in her shoes I would listen to the boyfriend's story and then listen to the "other "girl's" story too- they should match otherwise your pal knows more and that is why she walked.Because she loves this guy, she owes it to herself to find out the truth.
Pole to your friend. Hope things start looking up soonest.
I thing guys sometimes don't realize the things we, women do. However, if there are other signs of cheating then may be he is otherwise he probably isn't
yep, indeed true, maybe there's nothing there. not to act too rash
@ All thanks so much for the responses I copied paste and emailed her and she says thanks too.
He sounds suspect in my opinion, coz if it was the other way round would he have accepted her explanation?
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I would say trust her gut feeling but as far as clothes and pictures are concerned am with S&R. Unless she knows more than she is telling plus sometimes distances makes the view clearer.
@Kelitu Hi sis thats the same thing I asked her anyway ot was her decision to make after our thoughts.
@Steve Thanks for visiting and for your information this is my blog not "ours'" if its not your reading material type press the next blog buttin and navigate away. Whether boring and full of inane issue its mine.. Creat yours super human.
@Auntie Richi I so hear you mami. Hali?
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somethings could be overrated. all they need is time.
please give us an update?
I do think it could be lazy housekeeping (I still have an ex's bra lost somewhere in my things) or he could for real still be carrying a torch or acting the fool. It's hard to tell without further details.
Pole for your friend. Her man is being insensitive.
If she really likes the guy and wants to give him another chance she should tell him to get rid of the ex's clothes and pictures first. Then it will be a more open atmosphere for them to tackle the relationship.